"ANYTHING IS HARD TO FIND"

Oh, this is fun– I’m the author or the excerpt of the day on Six Sentences’ Ning page. Scroll down.

Went to a networking breakfast this morning, that I rather enjoyed. So funny, that less than two years ago, I was blogging from a hotel room (ha, during a tornado, if memory serves) after clamming up at a book event cocktail party or something and saying “That’s it! I’m fed up with being shy at cocktail parties and networking events!” Speaking in front of groups; never an issue. One on one convo; no problem. But, something about milling around and chatting with strangers was terrifying to me. I decided that night to get over it, and I sure did.

It’s a work in progress, mind you– it might always be. I still feel uncomfortable walking into a room full of people. But, what’s fear but a big invisible bully, right? So, I decided to address bits at a time, try different approaches and such and it’s time like this, when I’ve returned from an event and met nice people and chatter merrily with them and swapped business cards that I have to take a moment and realize I’m doing pretty okay on this resolution.

5 Comments

  1. Catherine
    Posted May 7, 2008 at 6:15 pm | Permalink

    Amy your writing always leaves me wanting more!! Catherine from Six

  2. Trump
    Posted May 7, 2008 at 9:15 pm | Permalink

    Hobnobbing and schmoozing sucks. It’s even worse if you’re wandering around with a plate of buffet food trying to find someone to talk to.

  3. Bubs
    Posted May 9, 2008 at 1:15 am | Permalink

    I like exploring the subtle differences between hobnobbing, socializing, schmoozing, chatting, gladhanding and networking.

    Right now I’m working (but not as hard as I should be) on trying to improve my ability to remember first names of people. I’m great with faces…names, not so much. And I definitely need to improve that.

  4. Jewgirl
    Posted May 10, 2008 at 11:13 pm | Permalink

    A work in progress indeed, how marvelous that you keep pushing through it. I’m so glad the event was a good one.

  5. John at Hella Sound
    Posted May 22, 2008 at 10:32 am | Permalink

    Ugh. I hate going to a tech conference and doing the working-the-room thing before or after sessions, or during the following cocktail hour. Ugh. It’s like a flashback to the 8th grade dance. Okay, maybe not that bad…

    Some people seem good at it; maybe I need to shadow one of those folks for a few sessions and see how they do it without feeling like an ass.

    I’d love to hear anything you discover in your process of fulfilling your resolution.


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